Nowadays remain different ways to educate, it depends on the education that they have received previously. A education more freely include that boys and girls are able to chose their decisions, they can decide what they want for their lives and this is a great way to grow up and learning from all the mistakes of your own decisions.
I think we should educate our children for they become totally independent of their parents, I´m not saying that they have to live without their parents. Teachers and parents should teach all necessary things for life and they would have to put them into practice. Of course when they need help, parents have to be there giving their best advice, but always with respect, from child to parent and also, respect from parent-child.